Abuse of men in relationships ignored by society. A hypocrisy men are figuring out.
Her bad behavior is normalized, his is pathologized.
Women are allowed to be victims - men are not.
Type into Google “why does my husband yell at me” and Google will serve up all sorts of legal advice, support groups and more to stop the abuse. Now Google “why does my wife keep yelling at me" and see what comes up.
If a woman berates her husband it is nagging, which is regarded as almost harmless, but if man similarly berates his wife, it’s abuse.
The list of double standards is long. More and more men have simply had enough and are not taking the abuse any longer. This is why so many good men have pulled out of the dating market because they value their peace of mind over the constant drama and trauma of the so called “modern woman.”
Men are also getting over being “loved” only so long as they are useful and can do things for women. The culture doesn’t care that over 90% of work place deaths happen to men, all you hear about in the national conversation is how not enough women are being made the CEO.
Alexander Grace and some other creators have been making content explaining this so others do not fall into these cultural traps and double standards.
Men are more often the victims of physical violence in relationships than the other way around. Men’s pain is invisible.
Emily King:
This next form of abuse is also wide spread. The old “if you are not doing something for me, than I will treat you like you do nothing at all.”
If he reacts to this with anything other than just taking it then he becomes the criminal:
The pattern of abusive women:
If a man cheats he is a player scumbag, if she cheats the conversation is “what has he done to make her cheat.”
When a man figures out what kind of woman she really is:
Why a man stops pursuing a woman:
The marriage question no woman is ready for: Is he happy? This is a major truth bomb:
